The very first step of the framework I shared with you last week is called “Know Yourself.” It’s all about starting with yourself and charting a course towards where you truly want to go. So, let’s peel back those layers and uncover the magic within.
Take a moment to reflect on these questions:
- Who are you? What makes you uniquely you?
- What innate skills and strengths reside within your being, waiting to be unleashed?
- What challenges do you face—those little stumbling blocks that trip you up along the way?
- Picture this: When are you at your happiest? What brings you that pure, unadulterated joy?
- Think about those activities that captivate you so fully that you completely lose track of time. What are they?
- Now, imagine a world where money is not a driving force. What would fill your days? What passions and pursuits would take center stage?
There’s more to this journey. Here are a few critical questions that can help you dig even deeper:
- What is your purpose? That guiding star that illuminates your path and gives meaning to your endeavors.
- Reflect on your values—the principles that shape your decisions and define your character.
- Do your purpose and values align with your current life? Are you living in harmony with your deepest beliefs?
- Will your purpose and values be even more aligned with the goal you have in mind? Will they lead you to the fulfillment you seek?
Many of us assume we already have the answers to these questions. Maybe we followed a certain path because we enjoyed certain subjects in school or because society deemed it important. We might even believe we’re doing well because we’ve achieved a certain status. But if you ever feel hesitation, discomfort, or doubt, it’s time to reexamine.
In fact, it’s healthy to check in with ourselves every few years. Just like consulting a map on a journey to a new destination, we need to see if there’s a more scenic route, a shorter bypass, or an easier drive. Our desires and aspirations may evolve over time, and it’s important to make sure we’re still on the path we truly want to be on.
Alternatively, after deep introspection, you might realize that you’re already on the best path—one that aligns perfectly with your purpose, values, and goals. In those moments, my friend, it’s time to switch on autopilot mode. No need to worry about bypasses or shortcuts when you’re already on the most fulfilling and purpose-driven route.
So, my fellow explorer, embrace this journey of self-discovery. Take the time to unravel the intricacies of your true self. And remember, it’s never too late to reassess and make adjustments. Together, let’s navigate the map of our lives and forge a path that aligns with our deepest passions and aspirations.
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